Last Updated Apr 4, 2011 3:53 PM EDT
Yet there is value in examining the roles of Dads and Moms in the financial education of children. If nothing else, the new TD Bank Financial Literacy Poll points up the value of having both parents -- or at least both a male and female role model -- involved in things like setting allowance and budgets and talking about credit cards and needs vs. wants.
Men and women often see the world of money through a different lens. The stereotypes suggest that men see money as a form of power and control while women see money more as a form of freedom and security. That's not always true, of course. The roles are reversed in many families and in still other families both husband and wife view money with a healthy blend of many different attributes.
No matter who looks through what lens, though, the kids will benefit from exposure to both Mom's and Dad's thinking. Hopefully, such exposure will help them mature with a balanced view of what money represents and the best ways to handle their personal finances. So don't punt this one to your spouse. The kids need you both. According to the TD Bank study:
Â· The shoe is on the wrong foot Dad feels more financially confident than Mom. But Mom handles most of the responsibility for teaching kids about money.
Â· There's a reason we don't budget More Dads feel the family doesn't need a budget, but more Moms say budgets are too complicated to bother with anyway. In all, 43% of families do not have a monthly budget of any kind.
Â· We teach differently Mom is much more likely to engage in practical money lessons like how to count money, comparison shop and save in a piggy bank. Dad is much more likely to set and manage an allowance and to create a savings goal.
Â· The kids get a late start Most Moms and Dads agree that they should be teaching their kids about money by age 12. But "most" is just 62%, and experts generally advise that simple money lessons should begin as young as age 6.
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